The Lanyard
– Billy Collins
The other day I was ricocheting slowly
off the pale blue walls of this room,
bouncing from typewriter to piano,
from bookshelf to an envelope lying on the floor,
I found myself in the L section of the dictionary
where my eyes fell upon the word lanyard.
No cookie nibbled by a French novelist
could send one more suddenly into the past –
a past where I sat at a workbench at a camp
by a deep Adirondack lake
learning how to braid thin plastic strips
into a lanyard, a gift for my mother.
I had never seen anyone use a lanyard
or wear one, if that’s what you did with them,
but that did not keep me from crossing
strand over strand again and again
until I had a made a boxy
red and white lanyard for my mother.
She gave me life and milk from her breasts,
and I gave her a lanyard.
She nursed me in many a sickroom,
lifted teaspoons of medicine to my lips,
set cold face-cloths on my forehead,
and then led me out into the airy light
and taught me to walk and swim,
and I, in turn, presented her with a lanyard.
Here are thousands of meals, she said,
and here is clothing and a good education.
And here is your lanyard, I replied,
which I made with a little help from a counselor.
Here is a breathing body and a beating heart,
strong legs, bones and teeth,
and two clear eyes to read the world, she whispered,
and here, I said, is the lanyard I made at camp.
And here, I wish to say to her now,
is a smaller gift — not the archaic truth
that you can never repay your mother,
but the rueful admission that when she took
the two-tone lanyard from my hands,
I was as sure as a boy could be
that this useless, worthless thing I wove
out of boredom would be enough to make us even.
(from The Trouble with Poetry, Random House, 2005, pp. 45-46)
Miss Potter, based on slices from the life of Beatrix Potter, is in limited release right now, so you may have to search around to find a theater that is showing it. The Hubster and I had to travel deep into the city to see it, but that was fun. I like visiting the city. Hubs had already seen it, because the school were he has worked for 17 years rented out the movie theater to show it to their high schoolers and teachers. Wasn't that nice of them?
The cinematography is wonderful, both indoor scenes and out. The scenery is lovely, lovely, lovely. Especially the shots in the Lake District and of some of the cottages and gardens. Renee Zelwiger and Ewan MacGregor do a stunning job of acting. The costumes and make-up are very well-done. One gets lost in the biography right away. You will recognize some of they players. One of the oldest Warne brothers in the Warne Publishing Co. is none other than Mr. Collins from the BBC version of Pride and Prejudice. Another male supporting actor, who plays a realtor and old friend of Beatrix's from childhood, is one of my favorite actors from the late BBC show Monarch of the Glen. (Boy, I miss that show)
I *really* enjoyed this movie. I cannot wait to take my dd and some of her friends to see it. We do not get to see movies like this make it to the big screen because they are so very clean and innocent. How refreshing to see honest moral codes and values in a movie today. I know it's a period piece, but most of us know that not all period pieces are clean, nor are "old-fashioned times" in history clean and innocent. Man has always struggled with good and evil, his own sin-nature and having to make [sometimes tough] choices to live within the mores of society, but also within what was once a much more common moral and ethical code.
The possible "pro-feminist" theme is not overdone at all. The "I will never marry" lines that get shared among the two main female characters are just a coping mechanism or a ruse. When you get right down to it, everyone wants to be loved. How lonely it would be never to be loved by anyone, or to have friends and family with whom to share and grow in love.
I was not offended at all by Beatrix standing up for herself in making a choice of man for marriage, mainly because she was in her mid-thirties (37 to be exact, though the movie portrays her as being 32) at the time and she had her own means of taking care of herself and not being a burden to her parents. Other points could be argued. Her mother was very pretentious; always wanted to stay on top of the social ladder, whatever the cost to her family, it seems. Someone needed to confront dear mum about that sin. LOL.
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